Last summer, I would stay up well past 2AM most nights. I would sleep on my couch because--from my couch, I can see both doors into my house. I would check at least 5 times to make sure my alarm was set. And then, I would just lay there--terrified and alone. & then last summer,… Continue reading My Execution Won’t Be Televised…
Author: pearson_ality
Princess Ashley
It was August 14, 2006 when I walked onto Wildcat country for my sophomore year of high school. Bolton Agricultural High School was not such an unfamiliar place this year. This time last year, I was a timid, little, know-nothing, easily impressionable freshmen. But this year was different. With my confidence high, I strutted in… Continue reading Princess Ashley
They’re Coming For Me…
They’re coming for me...When they come for me,where will you be? They’re coming for ME!When they come for me,who will you be? I lie awake at nightAfter nightAfter nightAfter nightBecause they have a right, right? A right--Because they’re white, right? When they come for me, you’ll fight…,right?You’ll light up the night, right? Fire, flames, &… Continue reading They’re Coming For Me…
I sat in a meeting today…
I have sat in a lot of meetings since my last run. Whether it is an organization leadership meeting, staff meetings, affinity spaces, or training with my students--I have sat in a lot of meetings. There’s no doubt that a lot of other Black women have also sat in a lot of meetings as well. … Continue reading I sat in a meeting today…
See ya on the next run…
I am a runner. Sometimes I struggle to identify that way. I struggle saying “I am a runner” for a myriad of reasons--I’m over 200lbs, i’m slow & my fastest mile is only 13:52 (& that’s when i am emotional); i failed at my first ½ marathon; i run intervals (run 3 minutes; walk for… Continue reading See ya on the next run…
8 Wins & Sins in 2018
2018 was a year of wins & sins. Here’s the highlight— 1. Win — New Phone, Who Dis?So I don’t really have to ask “who’s this?” because the cloud transfered all my numbers, but I did get a new phone. I ended 2017 and began 2018 by changing my cell phone number. Why? I have had… Continue reading 8 Wins & Sins in 2018
Pearson Preferred
I have been going by Pearson since my first few days at The University of Mississippi. If you would like to know why, feel free to ask me or read a previous narrative that I’ve written on my preference. I don’t go into detail here on why I prefer to be addressed as Pearson… Continue reading Pearson Preferred
Preserve Your Presence: NODA Blog
The following was published by the Association for Orientation, Transition, and Retention as a part of the NODA Connect Community Blog. It can be found here: http://www.nodaweb.org/?page=blog_presence My presence has been the “only” for the majority of my life. I was the only black girl in the majority of my high school classes. I was the only… Continue reading Preserve Your Presence: NODA Blog
Unplugged & Uplifted
As the Lenten season approached, for yet another year, I really had no intentions on “giving up” anything until I attended church the Sunday before Ash Wednesday and then again on Ash Wednesday. Pastor Elwood very casually (but nothing is casual when it comes as a word from God) mentioned social media as an… Continue reading Unplugged & Uplifted
Black Digital Identity: Response to Digital Leadership Network’s #SocialMediaSoWhite
Lent is a season of reflection and sacrifice—not about a challenge, but about a transformation. To be honest, I cannot remember the last time I actively participated in Lent (actually removing something from my lifestyle and spent that time in prayer and reflection). However, I recently (last June) moved from Knoxville, Tennessee to Tallahassee, Florida… Continue reading Black Digital Identity: Response to Digital Leadership Network’s #SocialMediaSoWhite